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That's why I am not ready to be Mom

As far as I check my Facebook account, I read these kinds of posts by young mothers who are suffering from this different experience, or you could tell the terrible experience after they had a baby. They couldn't do anything, I literally mean everything, without their babies, even go to Pepe. I read the other kinds of these posts on depression after pregnancy left mothers stuck with these sinking feelings. After all, when you asked a mother would she change anything if she could. She would say NO. She still sees the hell they put her through is the best experience ever. After all, when you asked a mother "Would she change anything if she could". She would say NO. She still sees the hell they put her through is the best experience ever. "I don't want to be a mom!" How dare you? That what I always hear when I say that's motherhood is not my aim. They do not yet realize that an adult woman could not want to be a mom.  They
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You Know.. You Deserve!

I feel stuck in a rut. I find all my efforts useless. Lonely. Maybe even my most loyal friends not in contact with me. My work is a dull chore. I want to be away, maybe for a recreation break or for replenishing my energy. You know we all be there. Yesterday, I talked to my classmate about her despair and worry. She was telling me she felt bored to tears as she wanted to quit her work. It was the first time I saw her in this mood. I always thought she is very optimistic and successful and never felt these depressed feeling. She told me that her trying to get a good job has been stopping from one year, and no one connected with her. I completely surprised as I always considered her an overqualified candidate. She is smart, funny, helpful, and highly skilled. Now I realized an important thing. You never give yourself what you deserve. You see yourself all the time just a loser, dump. You have no chance to achieve your aims. What you need to be compas

Who I am?

I passed several years to find out who I am and defining the purpose I existed because of it. Sometimes I was so exhausted as I couldn't find a pure reason. I was enjoying writing. Just no one read it. I started giving up and stuck. Why I did it? How I defined my self when introduced to a stranger? Lights full up dark thoughts. Someday when I came across the internet, I found a wondrous blog that was reviewing why we are fascinated in getting a precious plan to imitate. We need enjoying our journey in life. We need to wit with our fears and pains. There is no model to follow. We can create our own model. PS: Stop judging yourself. You have great skills, a great soul and a great heart just find your way to output it.

Do You Have Willpower? That's Not Enough

That's the bad news for you today. Somebody thinks that if he has willpower, he will bring all his goals. Other body thinks that if he is a talented person, all his dreams will come a true. It seems not right anymore. Your willpower is not enough. Your talent is overrated. Now, what should you do to make you a successful person? Only efforts can achieve great purposes. Initially, you have to make everything more clear. Stop setting vague goals like I want to be a good writer. Instead, say I want to grab attention to everyone who reads my words. Stop saying I want to be rich. Instead, say I want to occupy a suitable vacancy fits to me. Determine your priorities always works. At the beginning of each day, write down all to-do list. Start with the most important, and the urgent thing you must do right now after you finish something eliminate it.  You certainly feel very satisfied and proud. Try to do it and leave a comment to tell

Let Your Passion Push You

When I started writing, my family didn't support me enough. They thought that I did was ridiculous and useless. They advised me to search for another career to make a living. However I believed in myself and I had a full faith that I had meaningful and worthy words, people must read it. I well remembered the scrapbook I put the first lines and the first story I wrote. It was a bout a train and the faces I met everyday I traveled from my home to the faculty. As long as, I loved staring at people and imagined the stories behind their smiles and  displeasure. After that , I became graduated and I started a new phase in my life to explore what I really wanted and found out my skills,  qualifications and the most important thing my passion. As the days pass, I would be sure 100% that my passion is writhing even if no body read it -like this blog- but I feel free, comfortable and very productive. I began with publishing small posts on my facebook page

Don't Listen!

“I had a boyfriend who told me I’d never succeed, never be nominated for a grammy, never have a hit & hoped I’d fail. I said to him someday, when we’re not together, you won’t be able to order a cup of coffee at the fucking deli without hearing or seeing me.” lady Gaga I want to start with these inspiring words from yesterday Oscar night where this beautiful singer has rewarded the best actress. You can feel her ups and downs she passed to reach this point from her eyes and her voice tone. She seriously deserves it. I believe that everyone can do anything he wants. it is never impossible. I really mean this. The only key to achieve this is hard working. I want to tell my story that is relevant to this point. One day English was my big trouble I didn't feel any comfortable when I spoke. Making an English blog may be like a fantasy but I never gave up. I promised myself to do my best to act like a native. To be honest I still have trouble to be f

You Will Do It

"Dreams" is a very motivated word, it is positive, fulfilling of hopes. When I heard it, I unconsciously saw a beautiful scene like a plane on the sky -like this is one in the picture- or ground full of amazing flowers. All of us have an inspired dream but do you ask yourself what I do to make this come true? How many times we set a list of dreams and we failed to make it? Is the problem because our dreams are impossible or we don't have the ability to achieve it. I don't believe that we can't do anything we seriously want it, all we decline the motivation and the purpose.  we need to be more precious. We don't need to delay our dreams. We need to go deeper on all details. We need to set a deadline for our dreams. For example, I want to be fluent in English in 6 months. How I will do it. I will study every day listing videos and writing English topics. Why I want to do it. I want to pass the IELTS exam and travel abroad. I w