You Know.. You Deserve!

I feel stuck in a rut. I find all my efforts useless. Lonely. Maybe even my most loyal friends not in contact with me.

My work is a dull chore. I want to be away, maybe for a recreation break or for replenishing my energy.

You know we all be there.

Yesterday, I talked to my classmate about her despair and worry. She was telling me she felt bored to tears as she wanted to quit her work.

It was the first time I saw her in this mood. I always thought she is very optimistic and successful and never felt these depressed feeling.

She told me that her trying to get a good job has been stopping from one year, and no one connected with her.

I completely surprised as I always considered her an overqualified candidate. She is smart, funny, helpful, and highly skilled.

Now I realized an important thing. You never give yourself what you deserve. You see yourself all the time just a loser, dump. You have no chance to achieve your aims.

What you need to be compassionate with yourself. Maybe you need to set a new challenge that tests your skills.

If your work becomes tedious, why not re-thinking to change it. Why not trying new things, you might go on it, maybe not. But at least you will engage an experience.

You need to pat yourself on your shoulder.

Do something even it's so simple and shares it with your friends or parents. Stop thinking you are nothing because you are everything.

Comments

You Will Do It

"Dreams" is a very motivated word, it is positive, fulfilling of hopes. When I heard it, I unconsciously saw a beautiful scene like a plane on the sky -like this is one in the picture- or ground full of amazing flowers. All of us have an inspired dream but do you ask yourself what I do to make this come true? How many times we set a list of dreams and we failed to make it? Is the problem because our dreams are impossible or we don't have the ability to achieve it. I don't believe that we can't do anything we seriously want it, all we decline the motivation and the purpose. we need to be more precious. We don't need to delay our dreams. We need to go deeper on all details. We need to set a deadline for our dreams. For example, I want to be fluent in English in 6 months. How I will do it. I will study every day listing videos and writing English topics. Why I want to do it. I want to pass the IELTS exam and travel abroad. I w...

Who I am?

I passed several years to find out who I am and defining the purpose I existed because of it. Sometimes I was so exhausted as I couldn't find a pure reason. I was enjoying writing. Just no one read it. I started giving up and stuck. Why I did it? How I defined my self when introduced to a stranger? Lights full up dark thoughts. Someday when I came across the internet, I found a wondrous blog that was reviewing why we are fascinated in getting a precious plan to imitate. We need enjoying our journey in life. We need to wit with our fears and pains. There is no model to follow. We can create our own model. PS: Stop judging yourself. You have great skills, a great soul and a great heart just find your way to output it.

That's why I am not ready to be Mom

As far as I check my Facebook account, I read these kinds of posts by young mothers who are suffering from this different experience, or you could tell the terrible experience after they had a baby. They couldn't do anything, I literally mean everything, without their babies, even go to Pepe. I read the other kinds of these posts on depression after pregnancy left mothers stuck with these sinking feelings. After all, when you asked a mother would she change anything if she could. She would say NO. She still sees the hell they put her through is the best experience ever. After all, when you asked a mother "Would she change anything if she could". She would say NO. She still sees the hell they put her through is the best experience ever. "I don't want to be a mom!" How dare you? That what I always hear when I say that's motherhood is not my aim. They do not yet realize that an adult woman could not want to be a mom. They...

Not Bland Words

Search This Blog