You Know.. You Deserve!

I feel stuck in a rut. I find all my efforts useless. Lonely. Maybe even my most loyal friends not in contact with me.

My work is a dull chore. I want to be away, maybe for a recreation break or for replenishing my energy.

You know we all be there.

Yesterday, I talked to my classmate about her despair and worry. She was telling me she felt bored to tears as she wanted to quit her work.

It was the first time I saw her in this mood. I always thought she is very optimistic and successful and never felt these depressed feeling.

She told me that her trying to get a good job has been stopping from one year, and no one connected with her.

I completely surprised as I always considered her an overqualified candidate. She is smart, funny, helpful, and highly skilled.

Now I realized an important thing. You never give yourself what you deserve. You see yourself all the time just a loser, dump. You have no chance to achieve your aims.

What you need to be compassionate with yourself. Maybe you need to set a new challenge that tests your skills.

If your work becomes tedious, why not re-thinking to change it. Why not trying new things, you might go on it, maybe not. But at least you will engage an experience.

You need to pat yourself on your shoulder.

Do something even it's so simple and shares it with your friends or parents. Stop thinking you are nothing because you are everything.

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